I have a confession. When I got my Ph.D. in Gender & Interpersonal Communication, I thought I knew everything about relationships. I thought I had it all figured out.
But then I got married… and divorced. How the heck does that happen to someone who teaches people how to have good relationships?
It’s because even though I thought I knew everything… I didn’t.
But that was a long time ago.
I learned a lot from my “failed” marriage. I realized that a good, healthy relationship requires a lot more than just communicating. Relationships are a two-way street, and you need to have the RIGHT partner to make it work.
After my divorce, I jumped into online dating. Overall, I met some really nice people – just not any that I had that elusive spark with. I almost always came away from my dates thinking to myself, “Hey, he was really nice. I’d like to be his friend!”
But I wasn’t looking for a friend. I have enough friends. I was looking for the love of my life. Someone I couldn’t imagine living life without.
You can relate... can’t you?
Oh, and please don't think it was an easy ride for me. I have experienced it all, just like you probably have.
I got ghosted by guys that I dated for a couple of months (in other words, they dropped off the face of the earth with no explanation). And I also had men not want to go out with me again after one, two, or three dates. They simply stopped calling with no explanation, too. I also sent out countless introductory emails to men on online dating sites who never even had the courtesy to respond to me.
So, I'm no better than you. I've definitely had my share of rejections - that's for sure!!
But I didn't give up.
Then it happened. I finally met my husband.
And you guessed it - on an online dating site.
I'm not going to lie. It took a while. But along the way, I learned all the red flags to watch out for from the ghosters, the tire-kickers, and the time-wasters. And trust me... there are a LOT of those out there.
I'm sure you already know that.
But not only was I patient, now I know what to do and what not to do. And you can benefit from MY experiences because I can help YOU with all the knowledge I gained.
I honed my strategies that finally led me to my husband, the perfect man for me – the handsome guy you see in the picture above. In fact, we created our own relationship and dating website together: Her SideHis Side.
Yes, I have a Ph.D. in Gender & Interpersonal Communication. Yes, I teach and coach about relationships for a living. But if I hadn’t had my real-life experiences, trials, and eventual success, I wouldn’t be able to help YOU find YOUR happily ever after quite as well as I can today.
I’m living proof that online dating can work.
I want you to have what I have. I can help you find the love of your life, and YOUR happily ever after!